Hi, I do apologise for my long absence on my blog other then posting my YouTube vids I have been severely neglecting it. I am now back in control and in charge. I wanted to discuss the fact I am now 30 years old society states that any woman who has reached the ‘so called’ mature age of 30 and isn’t married or has any children is she even worthy of discussion or is she someone to forget about.

I mean think about it, your life is set up this way you’re born, you grow up go to university (if you want) however society does prefer its worker bees to be university graduates but I’ll leave that for another day…. you get married and have children then you die. They also say you must do these things by the age of 25 anything past that you’re encroaching on dangerous territories.

I find it ridiculous in 2018, our parents still try to mold us into little sheep instead of allowing us to grow into who we are, not what we are made to be because they said so. Would it kill them to give us some freedom? Now speaking for myself this is my third time at university and only now I’m achieving what I wasn’t before but that’s for a blog post coming up tomorrow.

Im still unmarried and without children and whenever I tell people this they are incredibly surprised. I am generally baffled by their lack of A tact, their face paints a thousand words on a piece called bull-shit!! What about reassurance that one day maybe I will find someone to have children with and possibly settle down with, instead of the whole ‘yuh 30 without kids you’re basically an old maid and you need to hurry up before yuh eggs dry up’

The point I’m making to round up this short blog post is live within your own truth and passion and now what everyone else says. So you’ve not had any children yet and your over 30 it doesn’t matter. You’re not married yet it’s not s big deal there are women much older getting married for the first time. They chose their own path and so should you….

stay blessed and true

Sistah Soul ❤️