Remember when yuh tek whey mi virginity final part…..

It had been a month since I lost my virginity and honestly things aren’t going well with my boyfriend I’ll use that word loosely I’ve not seen him in person since that day to go to that from how we were inseparable my body can’t finction I feel like I’ve last part of me pathetic…

Remember when yuh tek whey mi virginity…..

Usher’s song ‘nice and slow’ was playing on my car radio, as i drived to this guys house I didn’t know what to expect but I was about to loose mi virginity…. Yup you heard right, my cherry so to speak is about to get popped, I’m about to be deflowered in every sense of…

Dear white people part 2

So we’re going to have another conversation as I’m not done yet white people…… Im going to say it straight the psychological damage you have inflicted through white supremacy is one of the influences of black people’s poor mental health. You may not want to listen but I’m going to say it anyway because I…

Dear self hate….

This is going to be the most difficult to address no one wants to admit they suffer from self hate. To look at yourself in the mirror every day and think I don’t love what I see. Self hate is complex because it can mean different things, first when I look in the morning  and…

Benefits of Jamaican black castor oil

You can’t gst away from Jamaican black castor oil these days but is it actually beneficial?!! Well apprently so I’ve done my research and found five different ways it can help you so here we go!!! 1. Grow and thicken your hair a number of people are suffering from thinning hair for a number of…

Love peace and hair grease

So it’s 2018 and we are still having the same conversations and rightly so. Let me explain I want to understand why texture discrimination is still going on?, I want to understand why there is such a thing as people who have locs or dreads. Or whatever you feel to call them is not natural?,…

Black girl chronicles do I trust relaxer companies

A wonderful thing is happening hair relaxers sales are on the decrease. As more and more black women embrace their natural hair free from chemicals that are in fact poisonous. Companies  that made them are now introducing natural hair care lines to keep up with demand. For example dark and lovely arguably the biggest manufacturer…

4 years natural

Yup can you believe it I know I can’t it’s been four years since i returned back to being natural it’s gone by so quick in the blink of an eye as they say….. A few things I’ve learnt over the years well?! 1. Not everything good for goose is good for gander what I…

Natural hair segregation 

Natural hair segregation is running rampant in the natural community let’s not talk on how darker skinned women with tight coils in their head aren’t attractive. Natural hair companies and those who ad placements are neglecting we who don’t fit their main target audience.  So you mean to tell me you want to brag about…