Dear self hate….

This is going to be the most difficult to address no one wants to admit they suffer from self hate. To look at yourself in the mirror every day and think I don’t love what I see. Self hate is complex because it can mean different things, first when I look in the morning  and…

30 candles on my birthday cake but no wedding cake……

Hi, I do apologise for my long absence on my blog other then posting my YouTube vids I have been severely neglecting it. I am now back in control and in charge. I wanted to discuss the fact I am now 30 years old society states that any woman who has reached the ‘so called’…

Benefits of Jamaican black castor oil

You can’t gst away from Jamaican black castor oil these days but is it actually beneficial?!! Well apprently so I’ve done my research and found five different ways it can help you so here we go!!! 1. Grow and thicken your hair a number of people are suffering from thinning hair for a number of…

Black girl chronicles do I trust relaxer companies

A wonderful thing is happening hair relaxers sales are on the decrease. As more and more black women embrace their natural hair free from chemicals that are in fact poisonous. Companies  that made them are now introducing natural hair care lines to keep up with demand. For example dark and lovely arguably the biggest manufacturer…

Black girl chronicles part 14

Kim kardashian was compared to who? So it’s come to my attention that a few short months ago, Kim kardashian whose claim to fame was staring in a sex tape with her ex the singer ray j has been compared to Sarah baartman by the New York Times. The literal shiver that just went through…

Body positivity

I’m turning 29 In a little over a month and I’ve finally put on weight which I’ve been trying to do for years but now I’ve achieved it. I’m up from my usual 9 and a half stone to just over 10 stone as im pear shaped it’s gone to my hips and but and…