My body is mine

I saw a video that disturbed my soul but honestly doesn’t surprise me it was of a woman being surrounded by a group of men while just trying to pay for her gas at a station. Some people have stated that the video was set up and fake. However even if it is fake, isn’t…

Tale of the broken pussy……

There are certain men whose life mission it is to destroy your womb I call them womb raiders….. When you’ve not seen your main friend with benefits for a long time I’m talking April to October. So you go and visit with every intention just to get your kitty purring once again instead it turns…

Black women let’s talk on mental health

I recently did a YouTube vid where I spoke on black women and the struggles we face pertaining to our mental health. I had to reflect and think is the right time to drop this video and I realised yes indeed it was. Let me explain further, last Thursday I had a wobble the past…

Liverpool slave museum

Yesterday I attended Liverpool slave museum, when I tell you my emotions were stirred I mean every word. I was all prepared not to enjoy it because you can’t enjoy something like that however…. Any preparedness I had done before didn’t help. I stepped in and was interested in the various quotes on the walls…

Dear white people part 2

So we’re going to have another conversation as I’m not done yet white people…… Im going to say it straight the psychological damage you have inflicted through white supremacy is one of the influences of black people’s poor mental health. You may not want to listen but I’m going to say it anyway because I…

Dear black parents part 2

We need to continue this conversation as I feel there is much more to be discussed. We shall tackle an issue that I feel black parents particularly of the older generation tend to shy away from Mental health. Now I want to start first of by apologising if you felt I was too harsh, however…

Rasshole yuh body gud up gud up sistah……

You read that title right ladies, this is for you beautiful women. Over the past year I have put weight on, I’ve gone from 9 stone to ten and a half and now just a little over ten stone. I lost a lot of weight due to stress (university is a killer!!)  However now the…

Dear self hate….

This is going to be the most difficult to address no one wants to admit they suffer from self hate. To look at yourself in the mirror every day and think I don’t love what I see. Self hate is complex because it can mean different things, first when I look in the morning  and…