Body positivity

I’m turning 29 In a little over a month and I’ve finally put on weight which I’ve been trying to do for years but now I’ve achieved it. I’m up from my usual 9 and a half stone to just over 10 stone as im pear shaped it’s gone to my hips and but and…

4 years natural

Yup can you believe it I know I can’t it’s been four years since i returned back to being natural it’s gone by so quick in the blink of an eye as they say….. A few things I’ve learnt over the years well?! 1. Not everything good for goose is good for gander what I…

Black mans love

If I was to explain my love for the black man what would I say, It’s the finesse in which he speaks to me in his stolen language wrapping his love around his tongue eloquently His touch golden I feel my,emotions are frozen,He awakens my senses, tense passion surrounds us, he breathed new life into…

Natural hair segregationĀ 

Natural hair segregation is running rampant in the natural community let’s not talk on how darker skinned women with tight coils in their head aren’t attractive. Natural hair companies and those who ad placements are neglecting we who don’t fit their main target audience.  So you mean to tell me you want to brag about…

Black British and a studentĀ 

Let’s talk candidly what is the point being black an going to school I honestly want to know, because it seems to me that while in school back children are being oppressed let me explain it.  When I was in school I found that the history we learnt was never true and even though my…

Black women and children

Malcolm x said in one of his speeches that the most unloved and unprotected woman in the world is the African American woman but little did he know his statements reflect how black women across the world are unprotected and unloved. In Ā Jamaica currently an island I love to pieces it’s apart of my heritage…

New ideas šŸ’”

This year 2017 I’ve set myself the goal of coming up with new ideas an actually executing them making a step towards my future and doing things a little differently. I’m the perpetual shy reserved type who is afraid of going for things even though I know if I put my mind to it I…

Once, twice three times a maybe?!

Taking your ex back is like pinching yourself on the arm to see whether you’re still awake it just causes unnecessary pain…….. I have a bad habit of running back to my ex I don’t know the hold he has over me, maybe it’s his voice or his touch or his sweet kisses. Or maybe…

Love lessons

My heart was broken but the journey to find me is not over…., I wish I could say I was an expert on love but I’m not I don’t know everything about love, being in love or most importantly loving myself. They say how can you hope to love another if you can not love…

Natural hair lessons

One thing I’m learning as I progress on my natural hair journey, which is almost four years deep. Is my hair does not like braids or kinky twists aka any fake hair entwined in mine my scalp rejects it. Its so hard to take care of natural hair in this cold weather. So I try…