Big egos & small draws!’

I would like to address those men who don’t know how to accept the word no, I mean seriously how hard is it if a woman does not accept your advances it doesnt give you the right to either A force yourself on her because you know she’s asking do it or B stab or…

Dear black men

Dear black men, we black women love cherish and care for you but sometimes I question are we afforded the same? This isn’t meant to be harsh but maybe it should be so the message can penetrate the small mindedness of your behaviour and so you also realise how we will not tolerate your slack…

Bajan men & sugarcane

Just returned from a two holiday in sunny beautiful Barbados ahh how I adore that country the culture the vibez the people are so friendly so that brings me to my topic the men 😁!! I must say bajan men have the sweetest lyrics of any man on planet earth like literally their sing song…

Who am I?

Who I am I you ask we’ll let me tell you I’m a black woman and don’t you forget it, I’m black essence ready to permeate your senses, I’m black gold a story to be told, I’m black melanin ready to be dove in, I’m black ancestors who stood strong and true, but let me…

If I am love?

If I am love and love is me then who is he? Is he the one for me Or am I living an endless fantasy Do I say that love is a beautiful thing Without no measurement on distance or time Or should I lie and say I love you and you orbit around my…

Letter to my next

Dear next life partner I really don’t know what to call you as I haven’t met you yet maybe I should start of with dear potential. Dear potential I don’t need you to save me, I do not need rescuing I can save myself but what I do need is your love… Your love will…

Beautiful for a black girl? Bruh

Nothing and I mean nothing irritates me more then we black women being referred to as beautiful for a black  girl. Stop rewind and come again because I know you never said that nonsense to me, what does that even mean. So by that definition black women are ugly it’s just certain black women are…

The vows

I do declare that as a man I shall love until my dying breath, if I have to walk through the valley of the shadow of death I do it in a heart beat, if I have to fight hades and his army of dead to get you I do it, if I have to…

Mama Africa

I saw her ankh across her neck And I thank jah for I am blessed I feel in love with her from her halo of curls Down to her nose she resembled a Phoenix in a land called Egypt Her lips, her lips appeared as soft as a new rose Her smile more beautiful then…

What I hate about parties?!!

Now I don’t want you to think I’m some negative ass person but I sometimes I really hate parties having to fake a smile when you’d rather crawl underneath your bed covers and mind your business. You have to look good Nothing  I find worse then having to be extra careful with make up when…