You read that title right ladies, this is for you beautiful women.

Over the past year I have put weight on, I’ve gone from 9 stone to ten and a half and now just a little over ten stone. I lost a lot of weight due to stress (university is a killer!!)  However now the weight is on its stubbornly refusing to move not that I mind but you know people love fi chat.

My belly has also grown which is unfortunate lol, my bampsie has grown and my thighs and hips. My breasts are still little mosquito bites which is disappointing I thought with weight gain they would have gotten bigger. Alas no it wasn’t meant to be.

This blog is for you lovely ladies who may have gained weight, or lost it and you don’t feel comfortable. Clothes aren’t fitting how they used to (your favourite jeans are too tight or now they’re too big time to upgrade). It is ok for your body shape to change, to get love handles as long as you love them.

People will always talk on your body shape they are obsessed with it, ask yourself what is more important how do I feel about myself? Do I feel sexy when I look in the mirror, do I feel ready to face the world? Yes these jeans are a little snug but damn I look gud up.

It was only when I put this weight on that I was able to ask these questions to myself and realise, that when I was slimmer i wasn’t happy. I constantly complained about not having an ass, or wanting to have some meat on my bones.

Where as women who were bigger then I was wanted my slimmer body if I could have traded in a second I would have done best believe lol. Then I slowly started putting weight on and I finally learnt to love myself.

It is all about how you see yourself and how you learn to love yourself. No one can do it for you if there is something you aren’t happy about you can change it most times. However whether you’re marga (slim), slim thic, thic, or otherwise you are beautiful and special in your own way remember that ❤️

Written by Sistah Soul